And it’s so true. All those things just are there for me. It’s so great they are, they automatically come forward in that way when you use those four steps in the formula. That’s why we just give you the four main steps because everything else is automatic and you don’t really have to think about it, but you do have to allow them to function in the way they’re designed to function to assist you. Okay, but why are you saying four steps? I’m looking at three.
You act on your passion to the best you can. That’s two number three with no insistence, no assumption of the outcome. And four, no matter what manifests, you remain in a positive state. You can get the benefit from it. Okay, exactly, because otherwise, if I’m not in a positive state I’m not clear. I’m not receiving. I’m projecting negative stuff. I’m missing the whole thing. I’m miss.
Yes, okay, so then I wanted to, if we have time with me on the insistence on outcome, is that getting rid of all expectations or it’s not about the idea specifically that you don’t expect anything to happen. Obviously, you expect something to happen. There will be a result from your action.
But the point is, when we say no assumption, no insistence is that if you really are honest with yourself, you will have to admit that you really actually don’t know what the best outcome actually needs to look like. You really don’t.
And by insisting on a particular outcome, as if you do know that it has to be that way, that that is the best outcome, that you know that for a fact, that insistence actually allows you to place a limitation on what might actually be a better outcome beyond what you were capable of imagining with your physical mind.
So it’s a humbling understanding that you don’t really need to insist on what the outcome should be, because if you’re honest and humble, you really realize that while sometimes, sometimes your physical mind might get close in guessing what the outcome would be, that would be ideal.
Honestly, you really don’t know for sure what the best outcome actually needs to look like, but the higher mind does when the physical mind insists on a particular way that the outcome should look, you are actually blocking the higher mind from giving you the outcome you might really need.
Therefore, when you look at the idea of insistence as a limitation on what could happen that would serve you best, you’ll stop doing it, and I’ll just get in the present moment and enjoy.
Yes, because you know that whatever manifests, even if it’s something that you objectively don’t prefer, you have to know from a positive state that it’s got to be there for a reason that can serve you. If nothing else, sometimes you might manifest something you don’t prefer to give you a better idea. By contrast of what you do prefer, and therefore by staying in a positive state, you will see how to use what you don’t prefer in a way that gives you a clearer idea of what you do prefer.
And that’s a positive way to use what you don’t prefer, which is so good. That’s so good. That’s how it works. Does this help you? It helps me so much. Alright, then we will thank you for your interaction.
学会放下期待
这些可能性确实都为我准备好了。太好了，当你使用公式中的四个步骤时，其他一切都会自然发生。这就是为什么我们只给你四个主要步骤，因为其他一切都是自动的，你不需要过多思考，但你需要让这些步骤按设计的方式运作，以帮助你实现目标。好的，但你为什么说是四个步骤？我看到的是三个。
第一步，你以最大的热情行动。第二步，尽力而为。第三步，不执着于结果，不对结果做出假设。第四步，无论发生什么，都保持积极的心态，从中获益。确实，因为如果我不保持积极，我就会失去清晰度，无法接收信息，反而会投射出负面情绪，错过整个过程。
是的，好的，如果时间允许的话，我想谈谈关于结果的执着。这是否意味着要放弃所有的期望，或者说并不是具体指你不能有任何期待。显然，你会期待某些事情发生。你的行动会产生结果。
但关键在于，当我们说不假设、不执着时，如果你对自己诚实，你必须承认你并不知道最好的结果是什么样子。你真的不知道。
通过坚持某个特定的结果，仿佛你知道它必须是那样的，认为那是最好的结果，你知道这是事实，这种坚持实际上限制了可能比你能用物理思维想象的更好的结果。这是一种谦卑的理解，即你实际上不需要坚持结果应该是怎样的，你会真正意识到，因为如果你诚实而谦虚，你的物理思维可能会猜到结果，那就很理想了。
但事实上，你真的不知道最好的结果应该是什么样子，而更高的意识却知道。当你的物理思维坚持结果必须以某种特定方式呈现时，你实际上是在阻碍更高意识给你带来真正需要的结果。
因此，当你将执着视为对你可能最佳结果的限制时，你就会不再执着，改而活在当下，享受过程。
是的，因为你知道，无论发生什么，显化了什么，即使是客观上你不喜欢的事情，你也要从积极的角度去看待这件事情是不是因为某种原因来服务于你的。有时你可能会显化你不想要的事情，从而更清楚地了解你真正想要什么。因此，做你喜欢的事情，保持积极的状态，你会学会如何利用不想要的经历，更清晰地了解自己想要什么，喜欢什么。
这是一种积极地利用不想要的事物的方法，这非常好。这就是它的运作方式。